If seeing that title made your temperature rise a bit click on this: J. I. Packer Introductory Essay.  Often this “debate” is discussed in ignorance, Packer sheds good light on what is really going on here.  It is pretty long but at least read until section III.  One of the major points is that Calvinism is not rolled up in the “5 Points” it is more than that.  He explains it better, read it!!  The book is John Owen’s Death of Death in the Death of Christ I don’t have a copy but I would love to read it!!